應(yīng)對(duì)不善談的人的5種方法

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1. Change the topic of the conversation

1.改變談話話題

If the topic of the conversation is boring, it’s actually makes a bad conversationalist. Try to change the topic whenever you get the chance. In case the person doesn’t understand it, don’t give up and keep talking about something else. Insistence is a must here. The person will either go away or start talking about the other things.

如果談話的主題很無(wú)聊，實(shí)際上就會(huì)成為不太會(huì)聊天的人。當(dāng)你有機(jī)會(huì)的時(shí)候，就試著去改變?cè)掝}。在對(duì)方不明白你所說(shuō)的話的時(shí)候，不要放棄，繼續(xù)談?wù)撈渌氖虑?。?jiān)持不懈非常有必要。對(duì)方要么會(huì)離開(kāi)，要么就會(huì)開(kāi)始談?wù)撈渌氖虑椤?/p>

2. Stay patient

2.保持耐心

Dealing with a bad conversationalist is stressful, I know. But you should stay patient no matter what. Count to ten, breath and finally listen. This way, you will show you are respectful and you will avoid any kind of conflict. Just because the person is a poor conversationalist doesn’t mean you should treat them badly. Respect is essential in any conversation.

應(yīng)對(duì)不會(huì)聊天的人很壓抑，我知道。但是你無(wú)論如何都應(yīng)該保持耐心。數(shù)到十，深呼吸，最后傾聽(tīng)。這樣，你就能展現(xiàn)自己的尊重，你就能避免任何爭(zhēng)吵。不能僅僅因?yàn)閷?duì)方是不善談的人，就應(yīng)該對(duì)他們不好。尊重在任何交談中都很重要。

3. Put yourself into their shoes

3.設(shè)身處地為他人著想

Listen to their story and offer your support. It’s so easy to avoid people without asking them why they wanted to talk to you. Maybe that person needs your help or advice. Put yourself into their shoes and try to help them and cheer them up; you will also feel good. A bad conversationalist is not always so bad.

傾聽(tīng)他們的故事，給他們提供支持。不問(wèn)人們?yōu)槭裁聪牒湍阏f(shuō)話，就躲避他們，是非常容易地事情?；蛟S那個(gè)人需要你的幫助或者建議。設(shè)身處地為他們著想，嘗試去幫助他們，給他們打氣；你也會(huì)感覺(jué)不錯(cuò)。不善談的人并不總是那么不好。

4. Try to listen

4.努力傾聽(tīng)

Another good way to deal with a bad conversationalist is to pay attention and listen to them carefully. When you pay attention, you catch details that you would miss when you’re distracted. Also, focus on the person’s body language and expressions and you’ll decode the full message and know the person’s intentions.

應(yīng)對(duì)不善談的人另一個(gè)好辦法就是集中注意力看著他們，仔細(xì)聽(tīng)他們說(shuō)話。當(dāng)你集中注意力的時(shí)候，你就能捕捉到在你分心時(shí)候會(huì)錯(cuò)過(guò)的細(xì)節(jié)。而且，集中注意力看一下他們的肢體語(yǔ)言和表達(dá)，你就能完全聽(tīng)懂所有的信息，知道這個(gè)人的目的。

5. Ask questions

5.問(wèn)問(wèn)題

If you can’t avoid that person, then ask a lot of questions. Learning something new feeds our minds, whether it is useful or not. Human brain can absorb a large amount of information and an average person uses less than 10% of the brain capacity. So, you can even benefit from a bad conversationalist, if they answer all your questions or maybe they will run away from you.

如果你不能逃避這樣的人，那就問(wèn)許多問(wèn)題。學(xué)會(huì)一些新的東西會(huì)讓你的大腦充實(shí)，無(wú)論學(xué)到的東西有用與否。人類的大腦可以吸收大量信息，一個(gè)人平均使用的大腦空間還不到百分之十。所以，你甚至可以從不善談的人身上受益，如果他們回答你所有的問(wèn)題，或許他們也會(huì)逃離你。